Now Thats What I Call Qatar 62:Shamina Update

All,

Its a boiling hot Saturday, sorry i mean Friday, here in Qatar, im so scared of what is going to happen this summer the heat is going to unbearable, Shamina cant stand the heat and i would hate to think of what she would think of the weather this summer...

Well bout Shamina, its still very much in the air, no decisions have been made by my family, we have slightly more progressive talks, when my mum came, there was some testing conversations however if anything brought me and my mum closer together...we had a really good time when she was here. I hadnt really spent quality time with my mother for about the last 5 years, however we spent a good month togehter, reminded me of how valuable my mum is for me and all shes done for me, this made it harder for me to decide between my parents and shamina...

Its really ridiculous how someone has to make a choice like parents and a partner, i know im not alone in this choice, and for many young people from the Indian Sub-Contient, and Muslims of all origins they are from my knowledge having this problem,its such a shame as their is no problem within Islam for being biased on where somone is from, colour of skin, and for a man they can marry anyone of the book ( ie Christian, Muslim or Jew) and for a girl she should marry a Muslim( reason being the father usually dictates the families relgion, however in Judiasm they beleive its the mother that dictates and you can only be considered a Jew if your mother is a Jew). Well anyway in me and Shamins case were both muslim so their should really be a problem but oh wel their is at the moment but iA it will be resolved...

Im coming back next month with the little hope that we can get things back on track, and i will let you all know, however this summer is going to be key, as Shamina will be going to Bangladesh, and so there will be pressure on her if nothing happens between us for her to get married, so that is why something HAS to happen...

Well aneway i best go and bask in sun as its going to be sunset soon, take care...

Asif